My daughter has been involved with a man for three years and recently moved in with him and his children. I've only met this man twice. His girl is a preteen and he has a teenaged son about the same age as my grandson who also lives there. I'm on a fixed income and when I planned my Christmas budget, I didn't know of this new development. I've already bought and made my gifts for my daughter and her kids.
I have no idea what to get this family and don't want to resort to buying something from the dreaded "gift aisle" at the local big box. I feel that is a waste of money and is disappointing to the recipient. I don't have the money to buy video games, etc. for the kids and don't know them well enough to do something handmade. With surgery coming up the 18th I don't really have time either.
Do you think it is chintzy to purchase a traditional board game or nice jigsaw puzzle and tag it for all of them? My daughter and grandson will be receiving individual gifts.
By Frannie
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I think you should ask your daughter for suggestions and buy each their own gift- she could even do the shopping for you. I would not hesitate to give her a budget amount as she knows your situation.
How about a "family movie night" box or bucket? Wrap a box with Christmas paper, put shredded-paper filler on the bottom, fill it with a couple of boxes of microwave popcorn, boxes of candy and/or candy bars, a gift card to rent some movies, a movie magazine with information on current stars, etc. Add a tag with a sentiment such as: "Poppin' over with Christmas Blessings for the whole family to enjoy!" Then sign your name.
I bought my step-grandson itunes gift cards and he loved them. He was 14. Look for deals on them. On black Friday they had them for $30.00 for $20.00.
I would agree about asking your daughter for info on them - the kids especially. You could make them cookies - but I like the idea of a board game as that is something they could all do together.
I think a basket/bowl/container of goodies (homemade or store-bought) would be thoughtful and considerate, until you get to spend time with "him" and his kids. Chocolate-covered pretzels are always a hit!
Since you do not know much on them, please talk with your daughter. His kids could have an allergy to certain foods or anything. Explain you have limit to spend. Maybe a gift certificate for each at their favorite store.
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